horizontal (with others) cannot disappear if you have not apologized with the person
concerned.
For this reason, local community receptions in several regions of the archipelago hold
ceremonies or traditions that symbolize apologies for their fellow men, namely ba'da kupat.
Kupat comes from Javanese short for Confess lepat (plead guilty), the word Kupat is also
short for Javanese Laku Papat, namely Lebaran, Luberan, Leburan and Laburan. (Arif &
Lasantu, n.d., p. 154) . Kupat or ketupat is a food made from rice that is put into Janur
(coconut leaves) which has been shaped in such a way as to become a kind of container,
then steamed until cooked.
Janur, extracted from Arabic from the word Ja a Nur which means to have come a
beam of light. (Arif & Lasantu, n.d., p. 157). This means that after undergoing fasting in the
holy month of Ramadan, people have received the light of Hidayah in their hearts. And rice
that is put into a janur that is made into a container and steamed until it becomes a flat rice
(lumpy) symbolizes that society after fasting for a whole month in Ramadan should unite
there is no difference between the rich and the poor, united in one unified tepo seliro.
Kupat which is understood as papat practice is first Eid, second luberan, third melted
and fourth laburan, which has its own meaning as follows: Eid: meaning that Muslims have
completed fasting for a whole month.
Luberan means abundant wealth, let's give alms to the poor and all groups who are
entitled to receive zakat or the context of zakat fitrah. Remember the words of the Prophet
that the fast of every son of Adam still hangs between heaven and earth until he pays zakat
fitrah.
Melting means that we are willing to melt sins, mistakes, errors between others. This
is actualized by the tradition of mutual affirmation, friendship to the home of the elderly or
the elderly, giving a sense of affection for the old to the young. This is to melt sin and khilaf
which is haqul adam (between others). In other words, it leads to the interweaving of ties
and re-tightening of those that may have faded in the past.(Wildan, n.d., p. 274)
Laburan means derived from the word labur (an object used to whiten walls) is also
often used for water purifiers. This implies that man always maintains his inner and outer
purity. It is not easy to sin either to the Kholiq or to others, both birth sin and inner sins such
as envy, takabur, ujub and other diseases of the heart.
This tradition is carried out in the writer's area (Kalisari) (interview with Kalisari
community figures: 2018) for generations until now. It's just that there are two versions,
namely there are those who directly ba'da kupat on the first of Shawwal and some who do
ba'da kupat after fasting Shawwal six days, then the second version usually does ba'da kupat
on the eighth of Shawwal.
The second version refers to or receptions a hadith which explains that whoever fasts
Ramadan and continues six days in the month of Shawwal then it is as if he fasted a year
(ka shiamuddahr) (Yulian Purnama, n.d., p. 4)
3. Ngapati tradition (when the wife is 4 months pregnant)
Referring to a hadith quoted in a journal, the point is that when a human fetus is 120
days old or a range of 4 months there comes an angel messenger of God to write about his
sustenance, death, steps of behavior, and as a wretched or lucky person (Huda, 2019, p. 6) .
The tradition of ngapati is also based on the hadith which means: Has told us Al Hasan
bin ar-Rabi' has told us Abu Al Ahwash from Al A'masy from Zaid bin Wahb said 'Abdullah
has told us the Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam, he is an honest person again justified,
saying: "Verily every one of you was gathered in his creation while in his mother's belly for
forty days, then it becomes 'alaqah (zygote) during which time it becomes mudlghah (a
lump of flesh), during which time Allah sends an angel who is commanded by four statutes
and told him, write his charity, his sustenance, his death and his passion and happiness and